Want more? This guide is part of an ongoing series. Previous guides cover topics like kink basics, long-distance intimacy, sex after trauma, and ethical non-monogamy.
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Change the lighting, music, or even the room to break the routine of "habitual sex." Separate “desire” from “willingness
Instead of criticizing what isn’t working, use "I" statements to highlight what feels good.
Many couples touch only when aiming for sex. This creates pressure. Reintroduce hand-holding, back rubs, cuddling, and forehead kisses with no expectation of escalation.
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